C was officially diagnosed with autism at 2 years and 11 months old. However, even before the diagnosis, we knew that C was very likely in the spectrum and we immediately did the necessary to help him. We changed his diet and resorted to biomedical treatment. In just 2 weeks, we saw improvements in his eye contact and focus. In the UK (at least where we were), there aren’t any one stop centres for autism or ABA schools, only independent ABA consultants.
When C was 19 months old, we hired an ABA consultant to help us begin home-based therapy for C. ABA therapists were scarce, and hence, we, the parents had to take up the role of therapists. C responded well to the therapy. However, things soon got difficult as we were expecting our second child and couldn’t dedicate as many hours as we wanted to for C.
C attended playschool and nursery with support in the UK, but he was basically playing by himself, oblivious to other children. C has many strengths — he is a gentle, loving boy with an excellent memory, good attention span and has not much problems with academic activities. However, his speech was limited to just labelling things and he could only say one sentence when requesting for things, “Can I have …. please?” He was also echoing quite a bit too. After his 3rd birthday, we decided that we could no longer waste C’s time and so we returned to Malaysia to get the necessary early intervention needed to prep C for mainstream school when we return to the UK by end 2016.
We were considering a few ABA schools in our list and were near to a decision. However, before we came to a decision, we spoke to another esteemed ABA consultant who recommended Adapt Enrichment Centre. Adapt was never in our list because the centre had no website at that time. Students in the centre mostly entered through personal recommendation. I remember my husband calling Carmen, the owner and ABA consultant of Adapt and she told us that her centre was full and was no longer accepting students. However, she was kind enough to meet us and C.
We met Carmen and visited Adapt after the centre was closed for the day. We, especially C had an instant connection and chemistry with Carmen. She was also very experienced and she came up with a short plan on what we should work on with C. It must be parental instinct, gut feel — or whatever you want to call it — but we just knew Adapt was the right centre for C even though we did not do the standard checks we did with all the other schools, i.e checking out the therapists and the teaching environment in the school. We did our best to persuade Carmen to accept C and after discussing with her partner, Victoria, they kindly relented and slotted in C for the half day sessions, 3 times a week. The sessions slowly increased to 5 days a week to full days sessions, 3 times a week and half day sessions, 2 times a week.
Carmen works very closely with us, having meetings regularly to understand our aspirations for C and also to rectify stumbling blocks / C’s weaknesses and new behavioural issues which may pop up along the way. From there, she would tailor a program suited for C. Together with a new regime of biomedical under a new doctor and a new diet, we saw radical improvements in C in less than 6 months. From a boy who could not sit still during circle time in nursery and paid no attention at all to his peers, C is now able to sit and participate in group activities and is starting to take notice and mingle with his peers. We were once worried that C would never talk properly, but now he is able to communicate and talk in proper short sentences. In the 4th or 5th month at Adapt, Carmen felt that C was ready for mainstream kindergarten, even though we were hesitant as we felt that C was not quite ready yet.
However, Carmen strongly advised us to take this next step, saying that he was ready for new challenges. She then set goals and an intensive programme was drawn up to prep C for mainstream kindergarten. In just 3 months, under the guidance of Carmen and the dedicated therapists, C was accepted in Chiltern House. One of our happiest and proudest moment was when the kindergarten assessed C and felt that he was competent enough to join the kindergarten without the support of a shadow.
C is now in his 2nd week in Chiltern and is adapting well. He still goes to Adapt in the afternoon as he still has a lot to learn there. What we really like about Adapt is the very hands on approach Carmen and her partner, Victoria takes in handling their students. Besides working closely with parents, they also have a very close working relationship with C’s principal and teachers in kindergarten to discuss on how to better help C progress further.
Another positive factor which sets ADAPT apart from many other ABA and Autism Development Centres, is the personal bond Carmen has with each of her students. Unlike the typical more distant principal / head of school-student relationship, Carmen knows each of her students’ strengths, their quirks and weaknesses. To us, this personal bond makes Carmen more like a family friend who is genuinely there to help us with C’s development. We also like the more modern approach on ABA practiced by Adapt. In that respect, it focuses quite a bit on relationship development and is less rigid and robotic compared to traditional ABA.
We are very thankful to Carmen, Victoria and not to forget all the amazing therapists in Adapt, particularly C’s 6 main therapists, Gabriel, Cheryl, Michelle, Emily, Hazel (Occupational therapist) and Siew Tee. C loves his therapists and is very close to all the other therapists in the centre as well. The therapists are all young but they are qualified and very passionate in what they do. What is more important, is their genuine care and love for the children, which translate to great chemistry and a happy environment for the children to learn and to achieve new milestones.”
Parents of 5 year old C,
Damansara, Petaling Jaya
(Child’s name protected for privacy)